a friend venturing in a new relation and is afraid to end in a messy way and end up losing a good friend, so asked what should be avoided ( have no idea why he came to me in particular)
told him what makes a relationship special is making the other part feel special and/or sharing dreams in a high voice. This automatically takes any relation to the next level and this automatically bardo makes it impossible to return to any previous level.
for a very simple reason, the other part will serve as a constant reminder of a lost dream or how this person used to make him/her feel special in someway and now just a zomol and cause of those two things this is why i think the true hurt and pain of a breakup truly comes from.
I told him whatever he will do, it will end up in a messy way and he will end up losing a friend, he thought I was joking, but I wasn’t.