18 June, 2008

Matters of the heart

a friend venturing in a new relation and is afraid to end in a messy way and end up losing a good friend, so asked what should be avoided ( have no idea why he came to me in particular)

told him what makes a relationship special is making the other part feel special and/or sharing dreams in a high voice. This automatically takes any relation to the next level and this automatically bardo makes it impossible to return to any previous level.

for a very simple reason, the other part will serve as a constant reminder of a lost dream or how this person used to make him/her feel special in someway and now just a zomol and cause of those two things this is why i think the true hurt and pain of a breakup truly comes from.

I told him whatever he will do, it will end up in a messy way and he will end up losing a friend, he thought I was joking, but I wasn’t.


Miss Egyptiana "Trapped Soul" said...

ok ... you have tricked me ... after i thought that you have a positive attitude and thinking, here you go hitting me with THIS direct to my heart

it is cruel, painful, but true ... relations have no happy endings ... always messed up in a way or another ... what amaze me is that we always start over, and go for other relations in all levels ... we never ceasse trying... is it cause we fear loneliness, or it is our nature to live in groups... ?

Shimaa Gamal said...

Yes, I agree. In all ways he will be losing the friend. But momken if there friendship was solid enough it may find a way to sustain after the relation. It is really bad that we will mostly lose the friend for love either ways. But sometimes the gain deserves the risk

Jade said...